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Wednesday, December 28, 2005

new years wishes


WISHES FOR THE NEW YEAR

May your hair, your teeth, your face-lift, your abs, and your stocks not fall; and may your blood pressure, your triglycerides, your cholesterol, your white blood count and your mortgage interest not rise.

May you get a clean bill of health from your dentist, your cardiologist, your gastroenterologist, your urologist, your proctologist, your podiatrist, your psychiatrist, your plumber, and the IRS.

May you find a way to travel from anywhere to anywhere during rush hour in less than an hour, and when you get there may you find a parking space.

May Friday evening, December 31, find you seated around the dinner table, together with your beloved family and cherished friends, ushering in the New Year ahead. You will find the food better, the environment quieter, the cost much cheaper, and the pleasure much more fulfilling than anything else you might ordinarily do that night.

May what you see in the mirror delight you, and what others see in you delight them.

May the telemarketers wait to make their sales calls until you finish dinner, may your checkbook and your budget balance, and may they include generous amounts for your church and charities.

May you remember to say "I love you" at least once a day to your spouse, your child, and your parent(s). You can say it to your secretary, your nurse, your butcher, your photographer, your masseuse, your seamstress, your hairdresser or your tennis instructor, but not with a "twinkle" in your eye.

Bless you with every happiness, great health, peace, and much love during the next year and all those that follow.

..And I simply would add to that, the following:

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." (Jeremiah 29:11-13)

Got this from www.mikeysFunnies.com

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

The Gift


John 3:16 The Gift



I remember one Christmas I was probably 10 years old, I got up around 5:30 am and the rule was at that point we were allowed to go through our stocking. In my stocking was one of the first ever electronic race car games, with sound effects and flashing lights. Well let’s just say that after waking up my parents at 5:30 am to a racing car game the rules about stockings changed and so did the wake up time. I was so excited about Christmas

THE MAN AND THE BIRDSBy Paul HarveyNow the man to whom I'm going to introduce you was not a scrooge; he was a kind, decent, mostly good man. Generous to his family, upright in his dealings with other men. But he just didn't believe all that incarnation stuff which the churches proclaim at Christmas Time. It just didn't make sense and he was too honest to pretend otherwise. He just couldn't swallow the Jesus Story, about God coming to Earth as a man."I'm truly sorry to distress you," he told his wife, "but I'm not going with you to church this Christmas Eve." He said he'd feel like a hypocrite. That he'd much rather just stay at home, but that he would wait up for them. And so he stayed and they went to the midnight service.Shortly after the family drove away in the car, snow began to fall. He went to the window to watch the flurries getting heavier and heavier and then went back to his fireside chair and began to read his newspaper. Minutes later he was startled by a thudding sound. Then another, and then another. Sort of a thump or a thud. At first he thought someone must be throwing snowballs against his living room window.But when he went to the front door to investigate he found a flock of birds huddled miserably in the snow. They'd been caught in the storm and, in a desperate search for shelter, had tried to fly through his large landscape window. Well, he couldn't let the poor creatures lie there and freeze, so he remembered the barn where his children stabled their pony. That would provide a warm shelter, if he could direct the birds to it.Quickly he put on a coat, galoshes, tramped through the deepening snow to the barn. He opened the doors wide and turned on a light, but the birds did not come in. He figured food would entice them in. So he hurried back to the house, fetched bread crumbs, sprinkled them on the snow, making a trail to the yellow-lighted wide open doorway of the stable. But to his dismay, the birds ignored the bread crumbs, and continued to flap around helplessly in the snow.He tried catching them. He tried shooing them into the barn by walking around them waving his arms. Instead, the scattered in every direction, except into the warm, lighted barn. And then, he realized, that they were afraid of him. To them, he reasoned, I am a strange and terrifying creature. If only I could think of some way to let them know that they can trust me. That I am not trying to hurt them, but to help them. But how? Because any move he made tended to frighten them, confuse them. They just would not follow. They would not be led or shooed because they feared him."If only I could be a bird," he thought to himself, "and mingle with them and speak their language. Then I could tell them not to be afraid. Then I could show them the way to the safe warm barn. But I would have to be one of them so they could see, and hear and understand."At that moment the church bells began to ring. The sound reached his ears above the sounds of the wind. And he stood there listening to the bells pealing the glad tidings of Christmas. And he sank to his knees in the snow.

This man had a God encounter. In the snowstorm he experienced the truth about Jesus Christ. God came as man to show us the way. More importantly to be the way back to God. The living truth who brings us eternal life.
Why did God do this?
The answer is in my favorite Christmas verse:
John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

“What does God care about most? The redemption of his people. He wants all his lost children found. That’s the whole reason Jesus came to earth.” - Rick Warren

The Most Beautiful Christmas Tree Ever
byWilliam Theron Yates
The Christmas tree stood in a corner of the room, decorated from tip to floor with lights and tinsel and garlands and ornaments and a star shining down from the top. It was a beautiful tree. The family had spent many hours decorating it. Boxes of things from Christmas past had been pulled out of hidden places in overstuffed closets and the dusty attic. Cries of "Oh, remember this one?" and "Didn't Grandma make this decoration?" and "Where's my little toy soldier?" and the rustle of wrapping paper filled the air. Music of the season flowed from the stereo and the intoxicating scent of cinnamon and gingerbread filled the air as Mother baked Christmas cookies in the kitchen.
Gradually the tree had been transformed from a somewhat scraggly and slightly lopsided piece of greenery into a joyous symbol of Christmas. "Isn't this the most beautiful Christmas tree we ever had, Daddy?", a young voice asked. "No", cried another, "it's the most beautiful Christmas tree ever!"
As all pairs of eyes in the room turned to me, awaiting confirmation of this most excellent judgment, my mind suddenly filled with trees -- a veritable forest of evergreens and elms, oaks and maples, sycamores and cypresses -- and one certain tree. Before I quite knew what I was saying, I replied, "No. This is not the most beautiful Christmas tree ever." Cries of "What?" and "Yes, it is!" assaulted my ears. "Hush!" I said, "Shall I tell you of the most beautiful Christmas tree ever?"
"Oh, yes, Daddy, please tell us!" they chorused.
"Well, a long time ago, long before the very first Christmas, God said, 'One day, I will send My Son to the world, and He will show all people how to live and how to worship Me. He will give them a never-ending life with Me in Heaven where they will be happy forever. All they have to do is to be sorry for doing things their own way instead of My better way and to believe that He is my Son.' "
"Long years passed and it was time for God's Son, Jesus, to be born. This is what we celebrate as Christmas."
"Yeah, there were shepherds and angels and wise men," said one. "And Joseph and Mary, His mother," replied another.
"Yes. You all know the story of Christmas. But do you know the story of the first Christmas tree?"
"No, tell us! Tell us!"
"There was no tree at the first Christmas. In fact, the first Christmas tree didn't even come at Christmas!"
"What do you mean?"
"How could it be a Christmas tree if it wasn't at Christmas?"
"Well, Jesus grew up and told everyone about God, His Father, and that they could live forever with Him in Heaven. And many people believed. But some people did not want to change the way they were living. And they were very powerful people. And they got together and arrested Jesus and sentenced Him to die."
"Yeah, they nailed Him on a cross", said a sad, small voice.
"Yes. That cross was the First Christmas Tree! We hang ornaments and decorations on our tree to make it look beautiful, don't we?"
Heads nodded.
"Well, when they hung Jesus on the cross, they hung the most beautiful ornament ever! He had a wreath -- of thorns -- and garlands -- of the blood He shed for us so we could go to Heaven. Those were the most priceless decorations ever. Because Jesus, God's greatest gift to us, died for us nailed to that tree, it really is The Most Beautiful Christmas Tree Ever!"
And all agreed.
© Copyright 1993 by William Theron Yates
God’s love for us is the true meaning of Christmas. At a time of year when people seem a little more generous and kinder, remember why? God came down to earth to give us the greatest love story ever told. John 15:13 "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.


Christmas is not the end of the story but the beginning.

The kids were so excited and beaming about their presents and I know for me as a parent when I see the wide-eyed astonishment of my kids when they open the present I am thrilled. But you know what means more to me? Is when I see my kids use and get enjoyment out of their gifts for years to come.
It is great to celebrate the gift of Jesus Christ at Christmas, but the gift of salvation and relationship with God is a 24/7 365 day gift. It is given to not only for Heaven but today. The struggle for us is live like someone who is love with Jesus Christ.

Jesus is the Reason for the Season drives me nuts, because we add too many words. JESUS is the REASON. (PERIOD)
He is the reason for my faith and the foundation of my life. Anything that I build into my life that isn’t based on the foundation of Jesus Christ becomes junk and falls apart.

How do you live out the gift of Christmas year around?



Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Ministry Stress

Ministry = Stress

My blog is not usually pointed to a group of people but today's musing will apply to those in youth ministry more than those who aren't. But all are welcome to read and comment. If you are in youth ministry and this blog doesn't apply to you sorry for wasting your time.

I just finished reading an article by Christopher T. Marchand, one of his titles is Assistant Professor of Youth Leadership at Providence College and Seminary in Manitoba. His article is in the Journal of Youth Ministry.
The Article is called Secondary Traumatic Stress: Recognizing the Unique Risks For Youth Ministry.
In his article Marchand defines Secondary Traumatic Stress and how it is related to Post Traumatic Stress and how it is different than burnout.
I am going to use Marchand's article as a jumping off point for my thoughts today. I don't want it to sound like a book report because then you would all have to grade it.

One quote that stuck out to me in the article was, "there is a cost to caring". As a pastor I thrive on caring, it energizes me, helping people through crisis gives me a feeling of worth and value. Being that person who stands in the gap and brings people through a traumatic experience is what I live for. The point made here is there is still a cost. There is a cost to my health and family. I may feel energized but through helping I may be emotionally drained, mentally exhausted.

What this article hits on, if I am helping someone with an incredibly traumatic situation, I could experience Secondary Traumatic Stress. This is different than burnout defined in the article as, “Burnout is a syndrome of emotional exhaustion, depersonalization and reduced personal accomplishment, that can occur among individuals who do people work of some kind."Marchand says that a symptomatic homogeny exists between STS and burnout, which correct me if I am wrong that they look the same on the outside.

All I could think of reading this section was the words of Christ. Luke 14:28 -30
28"Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it? 29For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, 30saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.'

How many of us enter into ministry thinking it is going to be great and that we will change the world. People will listen to us. My youth in Calgary made sure to tell me how slack my job was. I think they were doing it in fun. The perception for them was Greg has this great fun job. How many of us go into ministry the same way countries went into World War I. We will kick butt and be home by Christmas.

How many of us really experience Luke 14:34?
34"Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? 35It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out. "He who has ears to hear, let him hear."

Seriously I thought in Bible School that I was part of this machine that would change the world. That God was really going to do something special with me and that I was going to be a hero of the faith.

I was so naive. I can't count how many times I have wanted to quit ministry. How I have asked God, "How stupid are you for picking me?"The point I want to make, is the one Jesus made we expect that because we are doing it for Jesus it will end happily ever after. Tell that to the Apostle Paul who bemoans to Timothy that everyone has left him. Or John the Baptist who in prison wonders if Jesus really is the Messiah. Ministry on any level whether as a Pastor with a title or volunteer, servant, Westjet Christian has a cost to it. It isn't all ice cream and lollipops and that some of our best energies or efforts will produce nothing that we can feel good about.

I think this post is getting a little long winded, like the Pastor of my church, just kidding had to say it. So I will touch on one more thing that Marchand said in his article.

He gave 4 significant reasons why people who work with the traumatized might encounter STS.
1. Empathy
2. Personal Trauma History
3. Unresolved Trauma Material
4. Children and Trauma

To me this is the essence of being a youth pastor. Any good youth pastor has empathy. Most people breathing have a personal trauma history, deep wounds from our lives, which have shaped us. Unresolved Trauma youth pastors function as MASH units, a lot of time we are dealing with teens who are in the middle of trauma and we don’t always see the end. Finally children and trauma, it doesn't seem fair to watch kids and teens suffer. I have heard myself say dealing with families in trauma, that no one that young should ever have to deal with …. And yet they do. The voice of Rev Lovejoy's wife from the Simpsons cries out in any situation, "Think of the children"
We can get emotionally and spiritually drained, not because we are sinning or not doing our job, but as a result of doing our job well. I think one of the real reasons that Jesus went into solitary times of prayer was to debrief.

There is a cost to ministry to continue touching lives we must realize this, how is your support network? When you have dealt with trauma do you debrief? Do you meet with other pastors to talk, pray and recharge. Do you take a couple more hours/days off after dealing with trauma or do you play catch up with all the work you missed dealing with the crisis? For my denomination we have the best kept secret. This is from the PAOC website.
Ministers Helpline
In cooperation with Evangelical Fellowship of Canada, eleven other denominations and PAOC district offices have commissioned Focus on The Family to establish an all-Canadian counseling helpline. This is private, confidential, anonymous counseling and referrals for ministers and their families.
This is completely confidential and free for our PAOC pastors. What a great resource to use the next time you deal with a trauma. Go to
http://www.paoc.ca/ and follow the links.

Friday, December 09, 2005

Idiot
If any of you have tried to comment to any of my posts for the last couple of days. Sorry I clicked the wrong box and all your comments are floating around the web. Anyways it is fixed now so comment away.

Glitz, Glamour Affecting Charitable Giving?


I watched this piece last night on ABC Primetime, the article accompanying this piece is pasted below. It is called, Glitz, Glamour Affecting Charitable Giving?
One stunning image in the piece was when a celebrity limo drove to a fundraising benefit for an opera or something like that and to get to the glitzy benefit they had to drive past like 20 homeless people sleeping on the street.
OK celebrities are easy targets so before I judge them and poke at the speck in their eyes. I have to ask why do I give? Who do I give to? More importantly do I give to fulfill a need or is it to make me feel better? Do I give to things that benefit me? Is their a difference between philanthropy and generosity? Do I give money to my kids school to make a difference for the other kids or do I do it to make my kids more successful. Another statement made in this piece was it is a good career move for these celebrities to been seen giving to charity. And all I could think was Jesus and Widow who gave her 2 cents.
Luke 21
The Widow's Offering
1As he looked up, Jesus saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. 2He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins.[a] 3"I tell you the truth," he said, "this poor widow has put in more than all the others. 4All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on."
I ask myself do I give like her or like the people that Jesus chastised?

Article from http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=1387620

Glitz, Glamour Affecting Charitable Giving?
Charities Serving Poor Sometimes Take Second Place to More Alluring Causes
It's the season for giving -- and for opulent charity events where the rich, powerful and famous mingle. But charities that help the poor aren't doing as well as more glamorous causes. (ABC News)
By BRIAN ROSS
Dec. 8, 2005 — This year alone, charitable giving in America is expected to reach at least $250 billion, with many Americans writing their checks in these last few weeks of the year, so their donations will still count toward this year's tax deduction.
And for some of the wealthiest Americans, it is not only the season of giving, but also the season of lavish black-tie events. According to publicist and society columnist R. Couri Hay, "It's all about charities. Social life in New York revolves around giving, and so every single night there are five, six, maybe even 10 parties during the busy season a night where you can go and give to a worthy cause."
The charity game is now in full swing as the rich, the powerful, and the famous mingle in circles where the level of opulence can seem incredibly out of place if the true goal is to help the needy.
"It's glamorous, and the room looks beautiful, and everyone's dressed up in beautiful gowns and jewels, but they're raising millions of dollars while they do it, and they're looking good," says Hay of the charity game. "Wow, I mean, what could be better than that?"
Over the last week, New York's charity circuit has included galas for scholarship funds, music programs, the blind, a variety of diseases and a star-studded event to raise money for a museum program to teach children about classic movies and television shows. Director Ron Howard was the guest of the honor at that even, where tables cost $25,000 each.
"Celebrities really help," says Hay. "We're still in a celebrity culture so everybody wants our celebrities at the party. You know, you add a celebrity, you have an excitement. And people pay money to be near a celebrity."
Neediest Overlooked?
Yet, while most of the grand events, such as a charity gala at the Waldorf Astoria, each raised hundreds of thousands of dollars, some people are left out in the cold.
"Americans are giving more and more and more to charity, they're giving less and less and less to the poorest citizens in this country," says Trent Stamp, who runs a non-profit Web site called the Charity Navigator, which evaluates and tracks where America's charitable contributions go.
"There's no doubt that American donors have abandoned the poor in terms of their philanthropic decision-making," says Stamp. "These are not the right types of charities that are endorsed by celebrities. These are not the types of charities that send you a tote bag when you make a gift."
Last year, contributions to charities working with the poor decreased to 8 percent of all money given, marking the third consecutive year of decline.
"For the most part, the large donor, the wealthy donor has turned away from these types of charities," says Stamp. "Nobody wants to be seen at the local homeless shelter, but they would like to be seen at the Symphony Hall."
Lilliam Barrios-Paoli, a former New York City social services commissioner, attests to that. She works with many of the city's smaller charities that deal directly with the poor and the homeless.
"I have donors that will give a $25,000 check to Lincoln Center, and they'll give us a thousand dollar check," Barrios-Paoli acknowledges. "You know, the big universities get a lot of the money, the big cultural centers get a lot of the money. And again, I'm not saying they shouldn't, but the reality is that we have the, we don't have access to the money, and we really need it."
All of this leads to the question, recently posed by The New York Times, whether all charities and non-profit organizations are equal.
Universities are considered non-profits and in some cases have billions in assets. For example, Harvard has $22 billion, and Yale's endowment is $12 billion.
Ivy League Criticism
Television personality Ben Stein, a Yale Law School graduate, met a lot of criticism when he first suggested universities with billions of dollars in assets were getting a disproportionate percentage in donor dollars.
"The generosity of individuals is much more meaningful to a local soup kitchen than it is to Yale," he said.
Yet all charities are created equal in the eyes of the Internal Revenue Service. A donation to the museum featuring classic movies and television shows gets the same tax advantage as a donation to a soup kitchen in Harlem.
"If you're working with citizens in this country who are not eating tonight, to me, that's a much more worthwhile cause than people who like to hear a symphony," comments Stamp. As for this winter, he says, "I think it's going to be a very cold and very hungry winter for our most vulnerable citizens."

Thursday, December 08, 2005


My 2 year old is fascinated with us taking pictures of her angry face.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Chirstmas Consumerism and Teens

http://www.harrisinteractive.com/news/newsletters/k12news/HI_Trends&TudesNews2005_v4_iss12.pdf?j=2903024&e=stasia71@yahoo.com&l=692018_HTML&u=42276179

I just read an interesting article on teens and consumerism over Christmas.  It was a good article and the link is a copy of that article.

The thing that I found really interesting was teens were asked what they would do if they won $10000.
Some responses were good but the one that stuck out was this one.
“First I would buy me an Xbox 360 and all the games that I want then I would pay off most of my bills and if I have anything left over I would donate 1/3 of it to the people affected by the hurricanes�

Tell me  is playing the charity card at the end of statement tell you anything about where this person’s heart is at?

The most troubling part of this persons statement is, “if I have anything left over I would…�
To me it is indicative of a mind set in our society that says after I have enough then I will look after those who don’t.  The problem is do we ever have enough.  

If looking after the poor is an after thought.  If giving to charity or our churches is based on what we have left over our giving patterns will never change.

My daughters school is doing a program called pennies from heaven for Christmas, and I love what they say, that every penny makes a difference.

I am not asking you or me to sell everything and give it to the poor, but to do something.  To consider what more you can do.  Let face it at our current involvement not enough is being done.  If we truly want to save lives and end poverty we need to do more.

Friday, December 02, 2005

West Jet Church
I was reading the blog of a friend who commented about McChurch. It is really a good blog http://soulpastor.blogspot.com some of the comments made are worth reading and some not so much. Anyways this is my blog and it is all about me not someone else. I started thinking about what is a good model of church and I came up with the West Jet church. So I commented - Mc Church! When I go to McDonalds, I have no vested interest except for the double quarter pounder, fries and a coke. I am taking what I want and paying a price for it. I don't care about the future of McDonalds or the employees just bring me my double quarter pounder, fries and a coke in 30 seconds or less. I think people are the same way with church and are willing to through $20 into the offering plate. They want value for their money. And give them what they want. And you are right this sucks. I want McChurch to be replaced by West Jet church. Why do Westjetters care so much? Because they are owners. Instead of taking what the company has to offer the idea is that they will make it better. What would happen if the people in church took ownership of the church to fulfill the mission statement of Jesus Christ - GO AND MAKE DISCIPLES OF ALL NATIONS!!!! Rich poor hungry well fed. We could change the world as a church if we truly took ownership of it instead of shopping from it.
I would love to know if people who work for, er sorry own West Jet actually feel a greater responsibility to look after people or if they get crusty like Air Canada employees, if you work for Air Canada don’t blog me back and tell me off just be nicer to me when I fly. I remember flying on Air Canada from Winnipeg and Toronto and having my flight cancelled when I got to the airport and asked what gives, the ticket guy said, “We ran out of pilots.� You what? I’m thinking how do run out of pilots? Did two guys quit, flying into Winnipeg or maybe you found an extra plane and thought maybe a couple of the passengers can help fly the plane. I have always had a good time on West Jet.
Getting back to the West Jet church – it involves a mind set change. I have sat in meetings at churches talking about how we need to satisfy our customers, those paying the bills in the church. And this is what is wrong with church models. The people on the membership list think that they are the customers and that the customer is always right. The customer of church is someone who is not a member. The ideal definition of church is an organization that exists not for the benefit of its members. Think about it! We exist to provide light in a dark world and yet we hide the light because we don’t want someone new to come in and mess up our perfect church.
What if at the end of West Jet flight they invited those who want to part of the West Jet to stay behind and they can give their lives to West Jet. I think people who felt cared for and valued as customers would be much more likely to join West Jet than if they were made to feel unimportant.
So I guess the question that we all have to ask is? Am I an owner of my faith or a customer?